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Taking Responsibility

Taking Responsibility


One of the most important things you can have in life is responsibility (having accountability) but so many people ignore having responsibility and when they do end up blaming others things for their own placement or position in life. What is your status right now in life? Are you lazy? Are you acting childish? Are … Continue reading »

Just Listen, Be Understanding

Just Listen, Be Understanding


Today i want to talk about quite simplistic but something that is amazing easy to do which can help other people quite often, that is the power to simply listen to people. Sounds pretty plain and easy doesn’t it? But listening has its power to, it shows a great deal of empathy towards the person … Continue reading »

Care Less of What Others Think

Care Less of What Others Think


Today i am going to post on a issue most of us have especially while growing up, i had this quite often through my ages of 11-21, it was quite difficult to be so calm and easy going when every minute i thought or felt someone could be talking about me behind my back. The … Continue reading »

Consistency Holds Promise

Consistency Holds Promise


Have you ever heard someone say something like “change is coming” or “i am going to make sure you get this and that” or even better when someone tells you that they will do a good job and that they will always stick by what they believe in such as their beliefs and values in … Continue reading »

The Power of Calmness

The Power of Calmness


What power does being calm hold? Makes you someone with ability to make better calmer decisions. Tells others you are fine even in the face of intimidation or conflict. Makes others see you have ability not to let yourself get stuck into emotional conflict. Gives you an opportunity to spot the errors of both you and other people. Allows you to avoid … Continue reading »

Leading is Teaching

Leading is Teaching


The position of Leading and Leadership is important to me, when put in a position of such responsibility it feels good to know that others believe in your ability. However on the other hand i see many people in a position of Leading and they cannot lead, instead of influencing other they do control and … Continue reading »

Love Yourself

Love Yourself


Some can say it is easy to “i love myself” in the mind but its rather difficult to actually love yourself, we all go through that part of life where we don’t like ourselves or simply cant accept our self, its normal. Some of us are apologizing just for being alive because others don’t accept us. I … Continue reading »

Compare to Self, not to Others

Compare to Self, not to Others


Many of us have an ‘External Frame of Reference’ or an External Locus of Control, this is rather common and isn’t a bad trait to have (sometimes it has its usefulness) but rather it is limiting to yourself of how you think and the real personal power you have in your own life. An external … Continue reading »

Be Yourself, Express Yourself

Be Yourself, Express Yourself


So we hear people always say “be yourself” or “stop trying too hard” and they all have a similar meaning, people usually say this when they don’t want someone fake or at least someone who thinks doing certain things will get them noticed. This could mean trying to impress in any form. For example when … Continue reading »