Tagged with mindset

Defeating Future Worries

Defeating Future Worries

I did another post a weeks ago about ‘Escaping past Demons’ or the ‘Past Mindset’, in this post however its about the opposite, its about worrying about the future. We all do this especially when that fearful day is coming upon us and the day our big exam comes, the day of course will be … Continue reading »

Escape the Past Mindset

Escape the Past Mindset

Are you always stuck in the past? Do you have a past mind-set right this minute? Can you not help yourself get out of a strut of thinking about something in your past? Is the feeling of pain a occurring because of the past? Are you stuck in a situation where you think “i should of done … Continue reading »

Dictionary Week: Day3 – Esteem

Dictionary Week: Day3 – Esteem

Self Esteem; So i thought today why not do a post on Esteem since it is a confusing word. So i did a in depth explanation of it and while confidence and esteem seem the same confidence is more of a outside projection from a momentary inner feeling while esteem is more inner and can … Continue reading »

The Practice Of Self-Deception

The Practice Of Self-Deception

Self Deception is a thought process of deceiving something or someone by convincing yourself your not something. This means you rub away the importance of something someone tells you especially if the thing said toward you is something you dont agree with, generally people exaggerate they are not something often as a way to pretend … Continue reading »

Logical/Emotional & Past/Present/Future

Logical/Emotional & Past/Present/Future

In this post i am going to talk about Focus on the ‘now’ and sometimes the future (as the long term future is important). whilst also pointing out that it is important to understand the reality of what is around you. Some things can be changed and some cannot but what you can change is yourself. … Continue reading »

Losing is One Step to Winning

Losing is One Step to Winning

This is something i train my mind to not only believe but to know as I know that losing isn’t horrible, it isn’t bad, it is fine, there is nothing wrong with losing. I know people who get overly frustrated, angry or even way too passionate about losing and then make it about them self … Continue reading »

Compare to Self, not to Others

Compare to Self, not to Others

Many of us have an ‘External Frame of Reference’ or an External Locus of Control, this is rather common and isn’t a bad trait to have (sometimes it has its usefulness) but rather it is limiting to yourself of how you think and the real personal power you have in your own life. An external … Continue reading »

Do not Seek Approval

Do not Seek Approval

This is fairly useful for a lot of people, some people do it without even knowing they do it. I thought i would go through what this means and how to stop doing it. When a person feels like others around them are better than them they usually seek approval from the other, in other … Continue reading »

What are Core Beliefs?

What are Core Beliefs?

Core Beliefs are things you know and things you believe that are true about yourself regardless of what anyone else thinks or feels about you. For example If i said to myself “i am clever, i am handsome, i’m a great person with lots of value” whilst you cannot pinpoint this and says it is … Continue reading »