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Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest

Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest


Have you ever been a guest at someones house and slept over at their house and then the next morning when they asked you if you wanted English Breakfast you simply replied “no thanks” but actually meant to say “yeah” because you didnt want to look like 1) a bad guest 2) a greedy pig … Continue reading »

First Big Mistake in Getting Your Ex Back

First Big Mistake in Getting Your Ex Back


Hey guys and girls, I just wanted to share with you the first biggest mistake you could be making in trying to get your ex back, you could be doing it right now without knowing it! With experience in relationships and counselling i class this as the first biggest mistake you can make in getting … Continue reading »

Just Listen, Be Understanding

Just Listen, Be Understanding


Today i want to talk about quite simplistic but something that is amazing easy to do which can help other people quite often, that is the power to simply listen to people. Sounds pretty plain and easy doesn’t it? But listening has its power to, it shows a great deal of empathy towards the person … Continue reading »

Consistency Holds Promise

Consistency Holds Promise


Have you ever heard someone say something like “change is coming” or “i am going to make sure you get this and that” or even better when someone tells you that they will do a good job and that they will always stick by what they believe in such as their beliefs and values in … Continue reading »

Treat Yourself

Treat Yourself


The last 2 days i have been really ill, I have suffered from a terrible virus with typical flu like symptoms, the great thing was that whilst i was in bed i managed to stop thinking about the torture of being ill and something popped up in my head. I climbed out of bed just now and … Continue reading »

The Power Of Decision

The Power Of Decision


What power does being decisive and making that important decision hold?: Makes you someone who seizes an opportunity. Tells others you have made your own decision on the basis of what you think is right. Makes others see you have strength to take hold of situations and help others out of them. Gives you an opportunity to … Continue reading »

Avoid Generalization

Avoid Generalization


From a personal growth standpoint of view this is one of the biggest things that lies behind each and every of life’s daily problems. We simply want something or need something and don’t realize little things such as; we cant always have what we want and we didn’t really need this thing after all. Simply … Continue reading »

Welcome to My Blog!

Welcome to My Blog!


Welcome to my blog site at jayrando.wordpress.com. I have begun a blog site based on several discussions mainly stemming around ‘Self-Improvement‘. This is an Introduction post on what I offer here at my blog, I love my Psychology, Philosophy and Sociology but i really enjoy the prospect of improving myself as a person and hope that i can … Continue reading »