Tagged with control

Be Better than Revenge

Be Better than Revenge


One common sign of EGO that thrives in most people is the feeling of getting revenge on someone to feel better about themselves, this is ‘insecurity’ at its finest because people who do this do not have self control in the moment that emotion appears. When a person cannot understand that of what goes on around … Continue reading »

Dictionary Week: Day4 – Ego, Spirit

Dictionary Week: Day4 – Ego, Spirit


Hi I am back, somehow i managed to get so sidetracked the last few days that i never got around to actually doing Day 4. Now i’m back however and have chosen to do two words to catch up. This Dictionary Week thing is tough because its finding the words that i best know how … Continue reading »

Dictionary Week: Day2 – Conscious

Dictionary Week: Day2 – Conscious


A big part of knowing the mind, knowing what your doing and knowing what your body is doing is very important in life and in Psychology because if you cannot differentiate what Conscious, Unconscious or Sub-Conscious means you will always be puzzled what word to use or which word fits true with actions or movements you do … Continue reading »

Lowering Your Expectations

Lowering Your Expectations


Thought i would drop in a post today about people having too high expectations of both other people and situations. The problem is that due to our inner self we seem get bothered and annoyed that something doesn’t work out the way we want it to. We sometimes put too much emphasis on something or … Continue reading »

Forgive and Forget

Forgive and Forget


When i first joined here at WordPress one of the first members i spoke to on here has not been on since and has taken down her WordPress which is quite sad, one thing they said was something that i remembered, something i too believe in as too do many other people. That is forgiving … Continue reading »

Compare to Self, not to Others

Compare to Self, not to Others


Many of us have an ‘External Frame of Reference’ or an External Locus of Control, this is rather common and isn’t a bad trait to have (sometimes it has its usefulness) but rather it is limiting to yourself of how you think and the real personal power you have in your own life. An external … Continue reading »

Do not Seek Approval

Do not Seek Approval


This is fairly useful for a lot of people, some people do it without even knowing they do it. I thought i would go through what this means and how to stop doing it. When a person feels like others around them are better than them they usually seek approval from the other, in other … Continue reading »

Self Control is the Real You

Self Control is the Real You


When we react to someone who provokes us or gives us reason to reply or respond responding in specific ways actually gives the other person more power: including power over you. Any form of responding to someone else is attention for them, its hard to get your head around but its true. In the last … Continue reading »

Identify Ego, Control It

Identify Ego, Control It


The ego can also be known as a demon within you that sometimes wants to take control of you, this is not saying the ego is a devil or demon it is saying the ego ‘can be’ the demon inside of you. The ego controlling you is actually very common and everyone is at some … Continue reading »