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Care Less of What Others Think

Care Less of What Others Think

Today i am going to post on a issue most of us have especially while growing up, i had this quite often through my ages of 11-21, it was quite difficult to be so calm and easy going when every minute i thought or felt someone could be talking about me behind my back. The … Continue reading »

Logical/Emotional & Past/Present/Future

Logical/Emotional & Past/Present/Future

In this post i am going to talk about Focus on the ‘now’ and sometimes the future (as the long term future is important). whilst also pointing out that it is important to understand the reality of what is around you. Some things can be changed and some cannot but what you can change is yourself. … Continue reading »

Self Respect Teaches Respect

Self Respect Teaches Respect

Many of us fail to have respect and more importantly self respect for ourselves in certain points of our life. Some of us turn around and say “no i have plenty of respect for myself” but then they are totally naive and miss all the situations they have been in where they unconsciously disrespected them … Continue reading »

Be Yourself, Express Yourself

Be Yourself, Express Yourself

So we hear people always say “be yourself” or “stop trying too hard” and they all have a similar meaning, people usually say this when they don’t want someone fake or at least someone who thinks doing certain things will get them noticed. This could mean trying to impress in any form. For example when … Continue reading »

Self Control is the Real You

Self Control is the Real You

When we react to someone who provokes us or gives us reason to reply or respond responding in specific ways actually gives the other person more power: including power over you. Any form of responding to someone else is attention for them, its hard to get your head around but its true. In the last … Continue reading »

Have your own Opinion

Have your own Opinion

I notice one slight trend in many people; this trend consists of someone having their own opinion on something but still agreeing with someone elses opinion simply because they are afraid of hurting the other person. What is not noticed here is that not being your own person or not being an individual is not helping … Continue reading »

Avoid Arguing, Just be Calm

Avoid Arguing, Just be Calm

Many of us argue with loved ones over petty arguments, its just part of human nature and all want to be right, strong, respected or simply seen as a person whose opinion is important whilst others aren’t. But you see that is the exact problem that pops up when we argue with others. We tend … Continue reading »

7 Signs He Likes You

7 Signs He Likes You

Hi everyone, there is one big question that comes to many of us, that question is >“Does he like me?”. I thought I would share with you all the signs a guy shows you when he likes you, I have gone into depth for you. The more signs you are getting from one guy the … Continue reading »

7 Signs She Likes You

7 Signs She Likes You

Hi everyone, there is one big question that comes to many of us throughout life, that is >“Does she like me?”. I thought I would share with you all the signs a girl shows you when she likes you, I have decided to go into depth for you. The more signs you are getting from … Continue reading »