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Hi I am Jay Rando, I hail from the UK. I am 25 years of age and a counselor of many types of advice and dare i say wisdom (they said this, not me!).

I have a big interest in Personal Growth and Self-Development; I am always finding new ways and new techniques we can put to good use to have a great life, whether that is changing habits, developing a new understanding of things, gaining knowledge or simply getting ourselves to realize our full potential and reach for success in our lives.  After a drastic change in my life and running into the area of counseling I have learnt a lot over the past 6 years, as part of my journey i have enjoyed helping others look at life in a much brighter picture and helping them get through some of the most challenging areas of their life. I do believe the World can be a better place but this may take every little stepping stone to get there, its always at the back of my mind everyday that i live but all our efforts count as one and so me sharing my life experiences and knowledge is my way of helping people become more aware and more awake in their lives so they can not only make their own lives better but also help the lives of others around them. Eventually with the love and help of each other we can become a better humanity on our little planet called Earth, with the faith and power to do our part and become better people then so too will the world also become a better place. I’m not afraid to admit I’m still a work in progress but this is what i love to do and something i have realized that can benefit many people. What matters is if you get something out of it. I know i did :)

I’m interested in Psychology, Sociology, Philosophy and anything that revolves around the world of Self Improvement; The ability to improve ourselves beyond any limits we have placed on ourselves. How we can understand each other better is part of that journey, but before that can happen we must take it upon ourselves to understand ourselves and the universe around us since once we do that only then does the rest follow. It seems a big problem with today is that we are always questioning everything, is what were doing good for us? Is how were are living good for us? Is the society we live under good for us? Does any of this make us happy? Would you like to be someone who can make the difference? ALL these questions pop up in my works. Please understand that my blog site is free, there is no charge and if my articles help you then great, let me know, i am happy to hear people who have learnt something here or tapped back into their personal power. Allowing negative energy to invade our mind is something that doesn’t help anyone, most of my work is geared towards positive energy, a positive way of living, a way in which aids your health and happiness rather than destroying it or it being taken away from you. There are other works in progress aside from my blog page, these will be revealed at a later date :)

So join me on the journey, let me know if i helped you in some way, let me know if i made your day better, let me know of what you have learnt on the journey, let me know what you think of the work im doing here (yes im very open to feedback) and most all have a good time while you are :)

~Jay Rando

13 thoughts on “My Profile

  1. hi jay i need some advice , i met my girlfriend in australia and we were together for the 2 years that she was here , now im still in australia and she is in new zealand , we agreed to meet in october after 1 year apart , now she tells me she meeting a guy 5 weeks ago and now she says she,s getting married to him in july , the guy is from argentina and she is from italy , she tld me i was her 1 true love and since she meeting this guy her mind had changed , she tells me a different story every week regarding her plans , one minute she,s coming back to australia then the next she,s getting married , im so confused we still talk alot on skype and she cries to her new boyfriend when we finish to talk on the phone help please

  2. Hi Jay, please help I posted something early this morning (on the Topic “7 Signs she likes you”, and I would like to remove/delete that post urgently/immediately. Please help because if I don’t remove it I am going to be in trouble. If you give me your direct/private mail address I will send you all the details of the post that I want to delete immediately. Please help before I get into serious trouble.

  3. Hello Jay.

    My name is Sophie and I work for a TV production company and we are making a show with a well known survival expert.

    I have come across some comments you have made and would be really interested in talking with you, to see if the show might be of some interest.

    Would be great if you could send me a message to the e-mail address I have provided, so that I may give you more information.

    Best Wishes,
    Sophie

  4. Hi, I have discovered your blog from the comments on the theme’ moving from wordpress.com blog to wordpress.org’. I can see you are still on your wordpress.com blog, are you content with your choice? I was also thinking about passing to ‘wordpress.org’ but not sure if it’s worth.. How about your own domain? Thak you for your help, I didn’t know where to post it, hope you don’t mind!
    Natalia

    • Hi Natalia, my belief from what i researched was that a .com is always better for web traffic, business, products or pure blogging. However .org is better for a site that is educational and less business like, a bit like comparing wikipedia to thisismyblogproduct.com… I do have my own websites, i actually chose to go with .coms in the end since there are many deals that allow you to have multiple sub domains within domains i.e you can have several .com domain websites for the price of one.

      But more to your question. What i did was bought a .com, at some point i am going to move this blog to a .com if it remains popular and i hit around 1000 visitors per month, apparently 1000 visitors is good for a free WordPress site and is a good time to move over.

      When you get your own domain you can always move your current free blog site with WordPress to your own custom domain. It costs a little money so i would advise that if you are a frequent blogger and are considering a future adsense blog/business/product type site i would get a custom domain from host gator, i bought a site on a 50% off deal and saved lots of money.

      After that you can choose wordpress to move your current free blog over to that paid custom domain or simply begin from scratch. Any further questions feel free to post in my ‘about/my profile’ section on my blog at the top of my blog page. Good luck :)

      • Thanks Jay. Having a look at your blog, this looks like mine’ wordpress. com’ at the end. But it looks like upgraded, am I wrong?
        I was thinking of having my own domain and maybe buy an update, to have more functions on my blog; What do you think? Sorry, kind of difficult for me all these technical details.
        Custom domain?is this the same as ‘buying your own domain’?? Thanks for your help.

        • Hi Natalia if you mean’t mine looks upgraded it isn’t but rather i have tweaked some of the free options i get with this theme, my site is still a free wordpress sub domain. The ‘wordpress’ part in your website name means it belongs to wordpress. But when you get your own site obviously the wordpress bit disappears.

          If however you get .org you will get all the goodies with it such as access to add ons etc and easy upgrading. If you get .com you will have to do all the updating yourself. However with my current .com that is self hosted (it isn’t this site but another one) it allows wordpress as a ‘template’ even though it is not hosted by wordpress. That means you can still have your current theme on a .com.

          ‘Custom domain?is this the same as ‘buying your own domain’??’
          Yep but by this i meant specifically ‘self hosted’. You can host your own .com (custom) or wordpress can host it for you through org with all those goodies they offer (most of which do cost to buy unfortunately).

          The difference? If you do not understand the technical side of website building .org would be your best friend (if you can afford it). If you understand website building or are interested in getting better at it (building a business etc) then get self hosted .com. Sometimes it is better to get to terms with the site if your new to it all. I had to use jayrando.wordpress.com 6-12 months before getting used to it (understanding how it works). Only when i got better at using it did i consider buying my own site. So i suggest if you are new to wordpress to give it a while before buying so you get a feel for the dashboards options etc.

          The downside to .org is how much it costs. The downside to .com is that you would have to install all the plugins and edit some of the html coding yourself at times. Of course i chose .com though because i don’t believe it is all that hard to get a self hosted.com and set it all up, its fairly easy. But again this depends on how good with the technical side you are.

          I hope this makes some sense and you can feel free to ask any questions whenever you have any. When i first came to buying a site it was quite confusing to me too lol (you are not alone). You will understand it 100% in due time though. Good luck :)

          • Thanks Jay, I feel better now :). I really like your blog and maybe I will have to look for another theme too, as yours looks very good! Thanks you for helping me! I will let you know what I decide. Have a nice weekend!

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