Hi everyone, there is one big question that comes to many of us, that question is >“Does he like me?”. I thought I would share with you all the signs a guy shows you when he likes you, I have gone into depth for you. The more signs you are getting from one guy the more chance he is interested. Here are the 7 BIG signs that he is into you:
1) He looks at you and smiles and brings attention to himself.
This first sign with anyone is usually when he looks at you. In the approach guys are very different to girls simply because they usually stall on how to approach and don’t give off subtle hints like girls. Guys show they like you in very specific ways and some would rather keep it to themselves. Him looking at you shows that he is enjoying looking at you and that you have his attention regardless, the only difference is that a man goes for a physically attractive girl initially because he wants the girl that appears most feminine to him. If he is looking at you with a smile or a seductive look this is a giveaway signs he feels something for you.
If he is interested he will at some point come to talk to you to get to know you better. Some guys will make excuses to talk to you or at least try sit near you and be friendly. Some guys do not know how to express their interest in the right way and end up thinking it’s all about being a friend or impressing you rather than being himself. Guys who are not experienced usually walk up to any girl and ask her out without getting to know her somewhat first, the guys who are experienced or simply more careful will simply be patient and hide their interest until they are given some kind of hint to pursue further. Guys are more like choosers, they choose who they like rather than feeling who they like.
2) He is self conscious when around you.
Unless he is a very shy reserved type of guy this is another great sign he might be interested. By ‘self-conscious’ I mean he seems very bothered about how he looks in front of you or gets some kind of stage fright around someone he considers cute. For example if you caught him looking at you he may look away quickly, this is a good sign as it indicates he was trying to hide his interest from you, this shows self-conscious behaviour as he didn’t want to look like some crazy stalker who got caught by you. Some guys may very well hold the gaze because they are more confident and know what they want, doing it doesn’t phase them.
Sometimes the more shy guys will look at the ground when around you, if you sense he cannot be himself around you it’s likely because he cannot maintain composure because he simply likes you. Other signs can include him being jumpy or quiet around you. He being quiet around you is because he would rather not speak out and make any silly mistakes in front of you. He may sometimes take a glance to see if you’re around and listening/looking and he may show off as a way to get attention including yours. This is because he cares about what you think of him, the part of him that says ‘I must whisk her off her feet pops up’ but guys usually end up trying too hard to impress. So he may act confident and funny sometimes as he thinks it will make you look at him in a different way. Guys think with the mind-set of trying to impress.
3) He gets your attention in more forward ways.
Guys who are more confident or more comfortable with girls may be more forward and flirtier in general, however he may still not be able to act or behave normally around a girl he likes. He will be outgoing in his flirty approach; this means him teasing you in several ways like throwing paper balls at you, calling you names and wanting to cuddle and touch; when he compliments you is also a big sign.
There are other cases where a guy will be mean to you and may seem a little cold toward you, this can be because they don’t realize what they are doing is hurtful. Sometimes it is to get your attention so that you think about them all day long, they like the effect they have. Usually if a guy is cold or mean to you it’s down to 3 things; he doesn’t know how to express his feelings and instead tries to hide them by being mean to you. He may also do it as a way to show off to friends, and lastly if for any reason he feels rejected by you he may also be putting out a cold persona to justify any rejection you may have given him, in that case he is more likely to stop being your friend.
Guys may also get jealous or sad if they see girls with other guys and this comes down to the fact that he feels his chances are over and he may move on, so if you do make him jealous don’t purposely over do it! In this instance you should simply be yourself, do not talk to numerous guys or be friends with too many guys if you want someone specific to be interested. At the same time do not drop other people to cater to others needs.
4) He seems excited to see you and talks to you a lot.
Once you get to know this guy, whether he is your friend or whether he is someone you recently have gotten to know you may notice he seems really happy to see you when you show up or turn up. It is likely he is taking a liking to you. The more socically inexperienced guys will always be overly nice in conversation to a girl he likes simply because he thinks it will win her heart, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t.
He may also put on a tough attitude around you as way to show off and not seem like a geek or wussy. He may also try to speak to you a lot and ask you many questions about yourself, why? Because he wants to know more about you, why does he want to know about you? Because he considers you a long term person in his life, he would like to know what makes you tick and what your hobbies and interests are. Why does he consider you long term? Well its obvious right? He sees a potential future with you regardless. If he talks to you a lot and asks personal questions about yourself and seems very interested in what you say these are also good signs.
A guy won’t show much interest in a girl he considers out of his league, its more likely he will back down from doing anything. Guys have a habit of putting women above their own self value all the time which is very silly. By this I mean if a guy sees a hot woman he suddenly becomes all mushy and will do anything for her.
5) He spends most of his time around you or with you.
It is likely that if he speaks to you a lot or hangs around with you quite often he is doing that for a reason. The main thing to do here is to look out for whether he puts himself around you all the time, by this I mean is he dropping time with his friends to simply be around you? Is he also giving up his free time to spend it with you?
Guys are more afraid of coming off stalker-ish so they do not like to follow girls around much but will still do it sometimes regardless, consider if he wants to be around you more. Some guys will even take up the same hobby as you or show interest in it just to have something in common with you. In some cases he himself may ask you to go out at the weekend where he may make the meeting feel friendly and casual to see where it goes. So keep an eye out on him, does he follows you around everywhere? If he does it’s because he’d rather be with you. Is he hinting at going to an event with you?
When a guy sees you as a positive influence in his life he will tend to copy things you do whether it is conscious or unconscious, it may eventually become a habit for him; so if you look one way and he looks that way too a split second later he is mimicking your habit because he feels close to you.
6) He talks to his friends about you or his friends involve you.
He may begin to talk about you to his family and friends. Guys do tend to keep their crushes to themselves usually however they will tell their guy friends when a girl is in sight he considers hot or cute as way of showing he is ‘one of the guys’.
Most of the time guys are attracted to the same girl so they do not call each other out on it and instead act more competitive in secret. It’s always good to look at the behaviour of his friends because they will likely give something away through their actions. So if you hear a rumour that he does like you it likely is true. If the guy likes you he may also become friendly to your group of friends.
His friends/family may put you into situations where you hang with the guy and with them as a group. If he seems forward in introducing you to her friends and family this is also a big sign he values you as a person, in other words he wants to show you off to her family and friends.
7) He is extra nice to you, remembers things about you AND generally cares about you.
This point speaks for itself; if he really is interested in you he also cares about you to some degree. If he is looking out for you, sticking up for you and generally being nice to you its a big sign he may like you. You can tell if his niceness is attraction because he usually doesnt treat his other guys and girl friends the same as you; by this i mean you are the only girl getting this ‘special treatment’.
So if he is caring about you even on small issues like helping you do any home-work and willing to help you complete it he may simply want to show you that he would be a great boyfriend. He will also remember things about you such as your birthday, so if you have a hunch he is remembering things to impress you its likely she is.
Some other signs: Whenever you haven’t been around you may notice he misses you and whenever your sad he will try to cheer you up, he may also give you little gifts to surprise you (i.e giving you a necklace). If he is the caring type he will usually do anything you want and listen to whatever you say. If he is doing anything you want I think its time you started asking yourself whether he does likes you because if you ask me it sounds like he does!
Note: Some guys are not confident at asking out so in this day in age don’t be afraid to ask a guy out even if it seems un-womanly of you, there is nothing wrong with it. Be yourself and drop some hints if you like him, if he wants to date you he will make it known.
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