Hi everyone, there is one big question that comes to many of us throughout life, that is >“Does she like me?”. I thought I would share with you all the signs a girl shows you when she likes you, I have decided to go into depth for you. The more signs you are getting from one girl the more chance she is interested. Here are the 7 BIG signs that she is into you:
1) She looks at you and brings attention to herself.
This first sign with anyone is usually when she looks at you, it shows that she is enjoying looking at you and that you have her attention and this goes especially if she has started to this all of a sudden. If she’s looking at you with dreamy eyes or a seductive look this is a giveaway signs she feels something for you. Its just as positive when a girl smiles at you, some girls may simply look at you without any kind of emotion. She will look at you as a way to communicate that you have her interest and that you can approach/talk to her. On that note girls will walk past you several times and into your personal space as well just to get your attention so they are noticed.
Some other ways she will bring attention to herself are: Dressing more nicely all of a sudden, making her hair look cute, putting on perfume and putting more makeup on. This is simply her way of looking good for you usually, whether that person is you is something for you to work out. If she has always looked good and smart then its likely she is not trying to impress anyone but herself.
2) She is self conscious when around you.
Unless she is a very shy reserved type of girl this is another great sign she might be interested. By ‘self conscious‘ I mean she seems bothered about how she looks infront of you or at least around someone she likes. If you caught her looking at you she may look away quickly, this is a good sign as it indicates she was trying to hide her interest from you, this shows self conscious behavior; she didn’t want to look like some crazy stalker who got caught by you and she may be scared of her own feelings.
One big sign is if she actually blushes around you or goes red in the face (acts embarrassed). She may also giggle at little things you say even if it is not funny, it is a sign her feelings are heightened around you and she cant maintain her her usual composure around you. Other signs can include her being jumpy or quiet around you. Her being quiet around you is because she would rather not speak out and make any silly mistakes in front of you. When doing something that requires confidence in front of others (e.g doing a presentation) she may sometimes take a glance to see if your around and listening/looking, this is because she cares about what you think of her. Regardless of what she is doing she does not want to screw up in front of you, she is trying to look her best in any situation so you think highly of her.
She may also when in your presence try to fix her hair up which is one of those very common actions girls do when they are self conscious and try to make themselves look better around you, it is a preening gesture girls do to flaunt off their hair/looks.
3) She gets your attention in more forward ways.
Girls who are more confident or more comfortable with guys may be more forward and more flirty in general, however she may still not be able to act or behave herself around someone she likes. She may still be more outgoing in her flirty approach but she will ‘unconsciously’ show attraction; this means her touching you/hitting you softly, calling you funny pet names, complimenting you and teasing you in general. Sometimes girl themselves don’t know why they are flowing with this kind of energy.
There are cases where a girl will be mean to you and may seem alittle cold toward you; understand that whether she hates your guts is not the main focus because she is still trying to get your attention by being cold, its up to you to work out if there is more to it. ‘Usually’ if a girl is cold or mean to you its down to 3 things; she doesnt know how to express her feelings and instead tries to hide them by being mean to you. She may do it as a way to see if you can handle her cold behavior, girls will test you to see if you can put up with it. And lastly if for any reason she feels rejected by you she may also be putting out a cold persona to justify the rejection she feels even if you did not reject her. However i reiterate: if the girl is really rude in a unnecessary way then I don’t suggest dating such a girl in the first place.
Sometimes girls will pretend they do not care, pretending they don’t miss you etc but if this happens simply take it on the chin, act cool and ignore it.
She may also get jealous or sad if she sees you with other girls, this comes down to the fact that she doesn’t feel as important as the other girls. Simply be yourself when this happens, do what you always do but don’t purposely make the girl jealous (it hurts).
4) She seems excited to see you and talks to you a lot.
Once you get to know a girl, whether she is your friend or whether she is someone you recently have gotten to know you may notice she seems really smiley, hyper or excited to see you when you show up and this is a very good sign that she is attracted. She may also put on a soft joyful feminine voice which is more of a unconscious thing girls do when attracted to guys.
She may also try to speak to you alot and ask you many questions about yourself, why? Because she wants to know more about you, why does she want to know about you? Because she considers you a long term person in her life, she would like to know what makes you tick and what your hobbies and interests are. Why does she consider you long term? Well its obvious right? She sees a potential future with you regardless. So if shes talks to you a lot and asks personal questions about yourself and laughs/smiles at things you say this is a very good sign, she would hardly talk to a guy about such matters if he was just friend material.
5) She spends most of her time around you or with you.
It is likely that if she speaks to you a lot she also hangs around with you quite often too, she is doing that for a reason. The main thing to do here is to look out for whether she puts herself into a position of being around you a lot purposely, by this I mean is she dropping time with her friends because she’d rather be around you? Is she also giving up her free time to spend it with you?
Another big sign is if you are the only person in a certain place at a certain time and you keep seeing her all of a sudden in this same place, consider if she is doing this as a way to be around you more. Some girls will even take up the same hobby as you or show interest in it just to have something in common with you, some like to keep bumping into you to act like it was a coincidence you bumped into each other. The reason for this is not just so you notice her it is also because she is starting to get more comfortable with being around you and when this happens it is usually a sign she wants to be asked out, she is putting you into situations where you can potentially ask her out.
In rare cases she may herself ask you to go out at the weekend where she may make the meeting seem casual when really she just wants to go on a date with you. So keep an eye out on her, does she follows you around everywhere? If she does it’s because she’d rather be with you. Is she hinting at going to an event with you when she talks to you? Does she talk of a future with you?
When a girl sees you as a positive influence in her life she will tend to copy things you do whether it is conscious or unconscious, it may eventually become a habit for her; so if you look one way and she looks that way too a split second later she is mimicking your habit because she feels close to you.
6) She talks to her friends about you or her friends involve you.
She may begin to talk about you to her family and friends. She is more likely to speak to her friends about the cute guy she is interested in, girls always share secrets with friends and if they dont their friends eventually work it out on their own anyway.
Regardless of whether her attraction for you is conscious or unconscious her girl friends will call her out on it and most likely tease her about. In some cases her friends may blurt it out to you, they may also keep it a secret but give you hints. Its always good to look at the behavior of her friends because they will likely give it away through their actions. Also if you happen to hear a rumor going around that she does like you its very likely true.
Her friends/family may put you into situations where you hang with the girl and with them as a group. If she seems forward in introducing you to her friends and family this is also a big sign she values you as a person, in other words she wants to show you off to her family and friends.
7) She is extra nice to you, remembers things about you AND generally cares about you.
This point speaks for itself; if she really is interested in you she also cares about you to some degree. If she is looking out for you, sticking up for you and generally being nice to you its a big sign she may like you. You can tell if her niceness is attraction because she usually doesnt treat her other guys friends the same as you; by this i mean you are the only guy getting this ‘special treatment’.
So if she is caring about you even on small issues’ like helping you do any home-work and willing to help you complete it she may simply want to show you that she would be a great girlfriend. She will also remember things about you such as your birthday, so if you have a hunch she is remembering things to impress you its likely she is.
Some other signs: Whenever you haven’t been around you may notice she misses you and whenever your sad she will try to cheer you up, she may also give you little gifts to surprise you (i.e baking you a cake). If she is the caring type she will usually do anything you want and listen to whatever you say. If she is doing anything you want I think its time you started asking yourself whether she does likes you because if you ask me it sounds like she does!
When a girl is around an attractive masculine guy she will respond in her own way, while women are hardwired similar they are also individuals and will show interest in their own own individualized way. If you are still unsure on whether a woman likes you please feel free to ask me and drop a short comment
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