Do you possess vulnerability?

Do you possess vulnerability?


Some of you might have heard of the term Vulnerability before, I have been studying it for quite some time over the past 3 years, this is something I come to know of through Brené Brown even though I have come to see that it parallels with others things I have learnt as well. You … Continue reading »

New Beginning (Jayrando.com)

New Beginning (Jayrando.com)


Hey there, its been a while. I’ve retreated so much to my life that i had taken an extended break from posting here. But from here on I will be posting monthly up until the New Year and every 2 weeks after this. This is a catch up post. There has come a time when … Continue reading »

Taking Responsibility

Taking Responsibility


One of the most important things you can have in life is responsibility (having accountability) but so many people ignore having responsibility and when they do end up blaming others things for their own placement or position in life. What is your status right now in life? Are you lazy? Are you acting childish? Are … Continue reading »

Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest

Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest


Have you ever been a guest at someones house and slept over at their house and then the next morning when they asked you if you wanted English Breakfast you simply replied “no thanks” but actually meant to say “yeah” because you didnt want to look like 1) a bad guest 2) a greedy pig … Continue reading »

Defeating Future Worries

Defeating Future Worries


I did another post a weeks ago about ‘Escaping past Demons’ or the ‘Past Mindset’, in this post however its about the opposite, its about worrying about the future. We all do this especially when that fearful day is coming upon us and the day our big exam comes, the day of course will be … Continue reading »

Always Do What Works

Always Do What Works


Hey everyone I felt i needed a sudden break from writing blogs too often so from now I may write one every now and then so that my ideas and creativity are replenished and so that i can get the other things done in my life. So today i’m going to share something so simple … Continue reading »

Just Listen, Be Understanding

Just Listen, Be Understanding


Today i want to talk about quite simplistic but something that is amazing easy to do which can help other people quite often, that is the power to simply listen to people. Sounds pretty plain and easy doesn’t it? But listening has its power to, it shows a great deal of empathy towards the person … Continue reading »

The Power of Patience

The Power of Patience


What power does Patience have: Makes you an Understanding person who can support others. Gives you a healthier outlook on life, you don’t become angry when things go wrong. Teaches others to be patient, you allow things to come at their own accord. Makes others feel comfortable because of your ability to listen. Gives you the ability to observe in life and … Continue reading »