Some of you might have heard of the term Vulnerability before, I have been studying it for quite some time over the past 3 years, this is something I come to know of through Brené Brown even though I have come to see that it parallels with others things I have learnt as well. You … Continue reading »
New Beginning (Jayrando.com)
Hey there, its been a while. I’ve retreated so much to my life that i had taken an extended break from posting here. But from here on I will be posting monthly up until the New Year and every 2 weeks after this. This is a catch up post. There has come a time when … Continue reading »
Have a Gratitude Attitude
Often people can be very ungrateful. Sometimes we dont have much to begin with so we seek out more thinking it will bring us happiness, but we dont realize the lack of confidence we have in what we already had. So the real people make use of what they already have and they are grateful … Continue reading »
Taking Responsibility
One of the most important things you can have in life is responsibility (having accountability) but so many people ignore having responsibility and when they do end up blaming others things for their own placement or position in life. What is your status right now in life? Are you lazy? Are you acting childish? Are … Continue reading »
Why Must ‘No Contact’ be used to get the ex back?
NC or ‘no contact’ is term used to discuss a period of time that you choose not to spend talking to the ex, it also includes the period of time where the ex is no longer part of your life, this means checking up on them in any way means your not taking NC seriously … Continue reading »
Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest
Have you ever been a guest at someones house and slept over at their house and then the next morning when they asked you if you wanted English Breakfast you simply replied “no thanks” but actually meant to say “yeah” because you didnt want to look like 1) a bad guest 2) a greedy pig … Continue reading »
Why being Friends with the EX is Disaster
Today specifically i want to talk about why being friends with the ex is a problem, not just any problem, its a very big problem in fact. You see being friends with the ex after breakup is actually the worst thing you can do for the following reasons: You need to heal and reflect. You … Continue reading »
Why did we breakup? Why did the ex leave me?
Well isn’t this the million dollar question? Now let me start of by saying breakups usually occur because there are multiple issues or problems that built up over a period of time prior to the breakup, this means a breakup where they left you is down to many different reasons which added together to cause … Continue reading »
6 Common Mistakes to Avoid with getting the EX back
Today i thought i would post specifically on common mistakes you should avoid during and after breakup. Now while you may have made some of these mistakes already it is important you do not continue making the same mistakes and correct any mistakes you have made. Now before i begin any mistake made so far … Continue reading »