Do You Possess Vulnerability?

Do You Possess Vulnerability?


Some of you might have heard of the term Vulnerability before, I have been studying it for quite some time over the past 3 years, this is something I come to know of through Brené Brown even though I have come to see that it parallels with others things I have learnt as well. You … Continue reading »

New Beginning (Jayrando.com)

New Beginning (Jayrando.com)


Hey there, its been a while. I’ve retreated so much to my life that i had taken an extended break from posting here. But from here on I will be posting monthly up until the New Year and every 2 weeks after this. This is a catch up post. There has come a time when … Continue reading »

Taking Responsibility

Taking Responsibility


One of the most important things you can have in life is responsibility (having accountability) but so many people ignore having responsibility and when they do end up blaming others things for their own placement or position in life. What is your status right now in life? Are you lazy? Are you acting childish? Are … Continue reading »

Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest

Straight to the Point, Be Direct & Honest


Have you ever been a guest at someones house and slept over at their house and then the next morning when they asked you if you wanted English Breakfast you simply replied “no thanks” but actually meant to say “yeah” because you didnt want to look like 1) a bad guest 2) a greedy pig … Continue reading »

Why did we breakup? Why did the ex leave me?

Why did we breakup? Why did the ex leave me?


Well isn’t this the million dollar question? Now let me start of by saying breakups usually occur because there are multiple issues or problems that built up over a period of time prior to the breakup, this means a breakup where they left you is down to many different reasons which added together to cause … Continue reading »